In life we get confused by the choices we must make. Don’t allow for those choices to linger to long. The more they linger the more you become indecisive.
At times I can become very indecisive with decisions I must make. I went through this process.
1 I’m always weighing my options picking between only two when there is more options available. I pick the two most likely options.
2 Checking with others to see what they think.
3 Listing the pros and cons
4 Visualize both options
5. Pick the option that feels rights.
This was always my process when I was confused about a decision I needed to make. I became dependent on others to help me rationalize my thinking. Then I began to over think because what if the lessor options are the better choices 🤔. Then listening the pros and cons 😳! 🤦🏽♀️ Made it even more difficult.
I now go straight to number 4 and 5. I visualize my options and I go what feels right. Some times when deciding things, it’s just using your intuition. Go with what feels right. When you go with what feels right you always pick the right option.
This is good advice. Sometimes it is hard to learn to trust your gut instincts. Which is why therapy can be very helpful! ; )
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Yes, it’s very hard to learn but we’re always second guessing ourselves instead of just trusting the answer that is already within 😊. I’m glad it was helpful
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