I didn’t forget about our the lucky story. It’s actually still going. So, Justin keeps bringing up the fact that I want to give Lucky away and that I’m abandoning him. And, I keep informing him that, that’s not what I’m doing. At times he’s makes me feel bad for thinking about giving him away and when I hear this cat meow all night. I can’t wait to get rid of him. I know it’s not nice and I should really think about How Justin feels being that he’s the only child. But sometimes I feel like he suckers me because of it and because I’m mom, I’m always putting him first. After long talks and rationalizing I decided to keep Lucky and learn ways to reduce his behaviors. However, if it doesn’t work he will be living with uncle Keith. 

Wish me Luck!! 


The Final Lucky Sagaย 


Justin came to me as I was getting ready to leave out for work as I knew he would, telling me in a passionate way that I was abandoning Lucky. I sighed and explained to him that I am not and that I’m giving him to a family member and that if he wants to see him he can always see him becauce he’s with family. He didn’t buy it. He looked like he wanted to tell me off.

His face was red from crying. I felt like the bad guy for the day. I don’t like it when he starts his day off in a bad mood especially if it’s caused by me. He want back into his room to calm himself down before school. Before leaving out I asked him to give it time and think about what I would like to do and he said he would.

He then cry and yelled ย “you know you are abandoning him, you had him since a baby and then you’re just going to give him away like that. It’s so easy for you huh”

I’m not good at arguments because I have a bad habit of laughing when I’m mad. So I laughed really loud and told him to have a good day and that I will talk to him later. Im praying that he’s okay by the time I speak to him.

Justin called me as usual when he got out of school. He’s a whole ย new kid when I speak with him. He’s said ” oh mom I gave a lot of thought and you can give uncle Keith Lucky. I can always go and see him like you said. We can also get the dog you said I can get so Isis won’t be alone” ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ฌ Yes I made all those faces.

I’m glad he understands but he’s not going to leave me alone about having a dog now. He has a really good memory ๐Ÿ˜”. ย I’m going to have to replace Lucky with something else. Hmmm๐Ÿค”.

The story continues because just as I thought he was okay with things. He’s not! ๐Ÿ™„

I’ll continue tomorrow!

The Lucky Saga Pt 2ย 

Autism, Moments

Monday I decided to give my male cat to my brother. He wanted another cat and I am tired of Lucky so I was happy to let him go. Here’s the thing my brother is currently staying with me so he can save up enough money to move down south. So, he agreed to take Lucky with him being that Lucky gets along with his cat Cleo… Yes I have 3 cats in my house and I’m not happy about it ๐Ÿ™„. One is enough.  I only got Lucky because Justin guilt tripped me into getting him.

I had to either produce a sibling or a playmate for our female cat Isis (We named her way before we knew about the terriost group).  I’m not ready to produce another child just yet so I went with the cat. He reminds me every so often that I’m the reason why he’s lonely. ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜‚

Justin is too cute when he’s reasoning.

The following morning I decided to tell Justin that I’m giving Lucky to his uncle… He bursts out into tears. I knew I messed up when he started crying. So he decided not to talk to me and went straight to his room. I was going to go talk to him but I knew when he’s ready he’ll come and talk to me. 

I have to go now.. I’ll finish the story in a few.

The Saga of Luckyย